Kev Pab Rau Cov Tsev Neeg

Koj muaj plaub lub ntsiab kev ruaj ntseg ua ib tug me nyuam kawm ntawv:

1. Nyeem thiab ua raws li koog tsev kawm ntawv cov cai thiab cov teg num qhia: Tus Kawm Phau Ntawv Tus Cwj pwm qhia.
2. Paub koj lub tsev kawm ntawv cov cai thiab cov txheej txheem thaum muaj xwm ceev thiab ua raws li lawv. Xyuam xim thaum drills thiab paub yuav ua li cas nyob rau hauv ib qho kev kub ntxhov.
3. Ceeb toom tej lus ceeb toom txog tej teeb meem— hauv koj tus kheej thiab lwm tus. Paub thaum tig mus rau ib tug neeg laus pab.
4. Muab cia qhov chaw txias! Koj yuav diffuse teeb meem thiab khaws kev kub ntxhov nyob rau hauv daim tshev mis.

Tsis tas li, koj yuav nrhiav tswv yim rau kev soj ntsuam txog tej teeb meem nyob rau hauv cov cuab yeej thiab tswv yim.

Koj ntshai thiab ib leeg yuav ua rau muaj teeb meem, thiab pab tau rau koj. Cov nram qab no qhia txog cov teeb meem uas qhia tias nws yog lub sij hawm los mus nrhiav kev pab; Tham nrog koj niam koj txiv, ib tug xibfwb, tawm tswv yim, los yog tus thawj saib tsev kawm ntawv. Xav tias dawb tham nrog ib tug neeg laus ntseeg tias koj muaj kev ruaj ntseg yog ib qhov teeb meem—rau koj tus kheej los yog lwm tus.

• Yog koj ib tug phoojywg zoo, lossis koj ib tug phoojywg zoo, muaj kev tu siab los yog nyuaj siab, lossis muaj kev nyuaj siab ntxhov plawv
• Yog koj xav tias koj ua rau koj tus kheej, lossis ib tug phooj ywg tau hais rau lawv tus kheej. Muab nws tiag thiab nrhiav kev pab
• Koj pom lwm tus me nyuam kawm ntawv tau pheej hais, los yog pheej cais thiab khaws
• Koj hnov ib tug me nyuam kawm ntawv raug teeb meem lwm tus kawm nrog lub cev raug mob
• Koj hnov ib tug me nyuam kawm ntawv pav xav tau txawm, nres los yog raug mob lwm tus neeg kawm ntawv los yog cov neeg ua hauj lwm
• Koj pom los yog hnov txog riam phom nyob rau hauv tsev kawm ntawv

Ntshai heev txawm thiab Rumors

Yog koj hnov txog kev hem thawj rau koj lub tsev kawm ntawv, los yog ib tug rumor tias ib tug neeg muaj riam phom, thov qhia rau peb paub. Peb tsis xav tau koj lub npe - cia li qhia kom koj thiab koj cov phooj ywg zoo. Koj yuav siv tau lub Send-A-Tip anonymously, los yog qhia rau peb paub tias koj yog leej twg, koj xaiv! Cia peb kawm seb lub tsev kawm ntawv koj mus kawm, thiab seb koj tej kev txhawj xeeb yog dab tsi. Peb mam li coj nws los muaj.

RAU TEJ YAM UAS KOJ YUAV UA TAU KOM TIV THAIV TAU KEV KUB NTXHOV

Tsev kawm ntawv kev ruaj ntseg yog rau sawv daws lub siab, tshwj xeeb tshaj yog tom qab txheej xwm zoo li lub pas dej liab thiab Columbine shootings. Ntev ua ntej tragedies tshwm sim, muaj ntau yam uas koj yuav ua tau kom txo qhov uas yuav muaj kev kub ntxhov. Coj koj lub neej yav tom ntej thiab yuav muaj zog txog xoom kam rau ua rau kev kub ntxhov nyob rau hauv koj lub tsev kawm ntawv. Nws yog koj lub neej; muaj zog.

1. Tsis kam coj riam phom mus kawm ntawv thiab qhia rau cov neeg uas ua. Tej zaum koj yuav xav hais tias ib tug snitch, tiam sis koj yuav tau txuag lawv lub neej - los yog koj tus kheej.
2. Kawm kom lwm cov me nyuam daws lawv cov lus tsis txaus siab peacefully. Koom ib tug phooj ywg mediator thiab kev txawj ntse rau koj tus kheej rau yuav diffuse tawv.
3. Saib ib tug me nyuam kawm ntawv. Cov me nyuam kawm ntawv tej zaum xav tias ib leeg thiab intimidated thaum lawv xub tuaj rau ib lub tsev kawm ntawv, thiab sim ua tawv kom tsim kom muaj lawv tus kheej. Koj yuav pab steer lawv ncaj nraim.
4. Muab ib muag zaub tiv thaiv kev kub ntxhov. Ua dab neeg rau kev kub ntxhov los tiv thaiv kev nruj kev tsiv hauv koj tus menyuam ntawv xov xwm. Tuav ib vigil, ua zog, ua xijpeem nws yuav siv sij hawm. Nws yog koj lub tsev kawm ntawv.
5. Txais tos cov me nyuam kawm ntawv tshiab. Yuav tsum paub tsawg kawg yog ib tug me nyuam kawm ntawv unfamiliar txhua lub limtiam. Kev kub ntxhov feem ntau los ntawm cov me nyuam kawm ntawv uas xav tias ib leeg kheej thiab raug rho tawm.
6. Ceeb toom kev ua txhaum tam sim ntawd rau cov neeg ua hauj lwm hauv tsev kawm ntawv.

KOJ YUAV UA LI CAS TXOG FIGHTS

Koj yuav pab tiv thaiv tau koj lub taub hau nyob rau hauv qhov chaw ua ntej lawv tshwm sim. Lub cev npaj yuav mus ib txoj kev ntev kom txias thaum tempers flare.

1. Paub koj tej yam ua. To taub dab tsi teev koj tawm thiab nrhiav txoj kev los diffuse koj tus kheej npau taws ua ntej nws erupts.
2. Yog tswj koj npau taws yog ib qho teeb meem, nkag mus rau hauv ib qho kev pab cuam tom qab tsev kawm ntawv hauv ib lub zej zos, tsev teev ntuj los yog lwm qhov chaw uas muaj teeb meem kev kawm.
3. Nyob rau hauv ib lub caijnyoog twg, muab sawv daws kev puas siab ntsws. Feem ntau fights tshwm sim vim ib los yog ntau tus neeg tau raug backed rau hauv kaum tsev siab ntsws thiab xav tias lawv tsis muaj txoj kev txuag lub ntsej muag uas tsis yog mus tua.
4. Yuav kam concede ib yam dab tsi rau koj tus nrog sib ntaus. To taub vim li cas tsuav yog npau taws thiab sim nrhiav ib yam dab tsi uas koj nyob nraum kam muab. Siv koj lub taub hau, tsis yog koj fists.
5. Tsis txhob sib ntaus nrog leej twg siv tshuaj los yog cawv, los yog leej twg nqa riam phom.
6. Tsis txhob nqa riam phom koj tus kheej. Muaj riam phom heev tsub kom koj muaj tiag raug mob, los yog raug mob ib tug neeg tsis muab kev koom tes rau hauv cov lus tsis txaus siab.
7. Ua ib lub luag hauj lwm bystander. Yeej tsis cheer rau kev sib ntaus, nws escalates lub intensity thiab ua rau kev raug mob loj rau cov neeg koom.

YUAV UA LI CAS THAUM KOJ NYOB NRAUM TAU HAIS

Kev siab phem tej zaum yuav yog ib feem ntawm thaum yau, tiam sis uas tsis ua rau nws txoj cai. Ntawm no yog li cas koj yuav ua tau kom txo tej yam kev siab phem rau koj tus kheej, los yog ib tug phooj ywg uas yog tau hais.

• Tham nrog ib tug neeg laus ntseeg. Koj niam koj txiv, ib tug xibfwb, tus tawm tswv yim los yog tus khiav dej num hauv tsev. Tej zaum koj yuav xav tias nws yuav ua rau nws mob heev ntxiv rau ib tug neeg laus, tiam sis kev tshawb fawb qhia tau hais tias nws ua rau kom zoo tau. Koj yeej tsis tau fim ib qhov teeb meem no kev siab phem ib leeg!
• Ua siab loj. Tsa koj lub taub hau rau saum ntuj, sawv ntsug ncaj, ntsia ntsoov koj lub qhov muag, thiab taug kev nrog kev ntseeg siab. Cov neeg ua phem feem ntau nyob ib leeg thiab ntxub cov neeg uas tsis qhia kev ntseeg siab rau lawv tus kheej.
  Tsis txhob liam koj tus kheej. Cov neeg ua phem muaj teeb meem, tsis yog koj. Tsim ib txoj kev npaj nrog ib tus neeg laus uas koj ntseeg siab los xaus qhov teeb meem.
• Tsis txhob sib ntaus rov qab aggressively, nws tsuas ua rau qhov teeb meem no ntxiv. Defensive thaiv, rhuav tuas thiab lwm hom tiv thaiv maneuvers yog zoo.
• Nrhiav ib qho tawm. Ua tus cuav xwm, las mees tus heev nyuj, nrhiav ib txoj kev khiav. Tsis txhob cia lawv paub ntau npaum li cas lawv nyob nraum tau txais rau koj, nws mam li tsuas ua qhov teeb meem no ntxiv.
• Muaj hwj huam nyob rau hauv cov zauv. Ua phooj ywg thiab kom koj nyob nraum nrog lawv raug kev siab phem. Lo rau sib. Yog koj pom lwm tus neeg tau hais, qhia rau tus heev nyuj nres.
• Tsis txhob poob rau hauv cov cuab ntawm arming koj tus kheej. Nqa riam phom yog tiv thaiv tsis tau tsev kawm ntawv txoj cai, yog txhaum cai thiab tsuas ua rau nws yuav raug mob tiag.
• Kev siab phem tuaj thiab mus, tau mob tiag yuav kav ntev rau lub neej.
• Cov niam txiv tsis coj nws rau lawv tus kheej mus ncaj tawm tus siab phem los yog tus siab phem tsev neeg. Tshwj tsis yog koj niam thiab txiv paub tsev neeg zoo heev, nws tseem tsis tau ib lub tswv yim zoo los confront coj txawv txawv tsev neeg txog qhov teeb meem kev siab phem.

XAV OB ZAUG: CEEV COV LUS TSEEB RAU GANGS

Ua ntej koj tau koj tus kheej hauv koj lub taub hau, ntawm no yog ob peb cov lus tseeb rau gangs muab koj ib co foupective.

• Gang neeg muaj 60 zaug feem ntau yuav raug tua dua cov neeg uas tsis yog-gang neeg.
• Gang kev kub ntxhov kuj qhia cov neeg nyob rau hauv ob peb xyoo lawm los ntawm cov kev taw qhia txog riam phom thiab tsav-los shootings.
• Li 95% ntawm cov tub ntxhais gang neeg muaj tsev kawm ntawv qib high school dropouts.
• Xyoo 1975 muaj li 55,000 tus neeg gang neeg nyob hauv teb chaws As Mes Lis Kas. Thaum xyoo 1997 cov xov tooj muaj ballooned li 800,000. Nyob rau xyoo 2015 rau FBI qhia 1.4 lab (million) yam neeg gang neeg hauv 33,000 txawv gangs hla lub xeev Unites. (Tau qhov twg los: FBI)
• Thaum koj nyob nraum hauv, nws yog feem ntau tsis tshua muaj neeg yus thiab nyuaj tawm.
• Ntau gangs resort rau kev kub ntxhov, txawm tua neeg, los tswj loyalty thiab tiv thaiv cov neeg tawm hauv.

YIM LUB TSWV YIM RAU TSIS TXHOB GANGS

Qhov tseeb ntawm qhov teeb meem no yog tias gang kev ua yog escalating tag nrho ib ncig lub teb chaws. Uas tsis txhais hais tias koj yuav tsum tau ua ib tug neeg raug dag hais. Ntawm no yog yim lub tswv yim kom tsis txhob gang kev ua.

1. Tsis txhob dai los yog associate nrog neeg gang neeg los yog "wannabe" gang neeg.
2. Tsis txhob qhia los yog sib txuas lus nrog gangs.
3. Khaws koj ob lub qhov muag qhib rau paub gang hangouts thiab steer ntshiab.
4. Tsis txhob mus kom ze lub tsheb nrog cov neeg hnyuj hnyo kom tau nug rau cov lus qhia.
5. Paub cov gang hais txog khaub ncaws nyob rau hauv koj cheeb tsam thiab tsis hnav nws qhov twg gangs congregate.
6. Yeej tsis mus koom ib tog twg muab tso rau ntawm gangs los yog lawv associates.
7. Tsis txhob koom tes hauv tej graffiti kev ua los yog dai nyob ib ncig ntawm qhov twg graffiti yog tam sim no.
8. Tsis txhob siv txhua yam ntiv tes taw los yog kos npe rau cov lus nyob rau hauv pej xeem uas tej zaum yuav construed li ib gang kos npe.

COV TSHOOJ LUS NTAWM LUB PAS DEJ LIAB THIAB COLUMBINE

Qhov tseeb yog tias thaum shootings ntawm lub pas dej liab thiab Columbine tau txais ib tug nqi zoo kawg li tawm xim, lawv muaj tsawg kawg nkaus. Txawm li ntawd los, cov me nyuam kawm ntawv, cov niam txiv thiab cov xib fwb yuav tag nrho tseg tej zaj lus qhia tseem ceeb ntawm cov pub leej twg.

• Tsausmuag rampages muaj tsawg impulsive yam, yuav luag txhua tus neeg paub zajlus thiab tau pom tej yam tshwm sim.
• Feem ntau cov me nyuam kawm ntawv uas mus rampages tau kev outcasts, thiab feem ntau hais, thiab teased mercilessly los ntawm lwm cov me nyuam kawm ntawv. Cov kev kub ntxhov yog payback rau cov kev siab phem.
• Attackers muaj exhibited tej yam tshwm sim thiab cov tsos mob ntawm fantasizing txog ua tsausmuag ua tsausmuag tiv thaiv koj txog haujlwm cov me nyuam kawm ntawv thiab cov xib fwb.
• Attackers yuav feem ntau "leak" cov ntaub ntawv hais txog lawv intentions rau lwm cov me nyuam kawm ntawv. Nws yog lub luag hauj lwm ntawm txhua tus tub ntxhais kawm ntawv kom qhia tej tswv yim rau ib tug neeg laus.
• Feem ntau cov tsev kawm ntawv tragedies yog pov tseg los ntawm cov me nyuam kawm ntawv sib koom nrog cov neeg laus. Kauj ruam tom ntej thiab pab sawv daws nyob rau hauv qhov teeb meem no los ua qhov zoo tshaj plaws.
• Tej yam tshwm sim uas feem ntau pub leej twg tsausmuag daim duab tsausmuag thiab sau ntawv, txoj kev nyuaj siab thiab rho tawm, mentioning rau cov phooj ywg uas lawv xav tua ib tug neeg, thiab pav ntawm yus tua yus.
• Yuav tsum alert rau radical hloov hauv tus cwj pwm.
• Tshwj xeeb tshaj yog rhiab rau cov lus ceeb toom tom qab ib tug me nyuam kawm ntawv tau hnov tej yam tsis tau, xws li tuag ib tug hlub.

Yuav qhia seb koj tus menyuam puas raug Hais Lus

Cov me nyuam uas tau harassed los ntawm ib tug mob heev exhibit tej yam tshwm sim, tiam sis txhua tus me nyuam yuav pom cov tsos mob txawv. Ntawm no yog dab tsi mus nrhiav yog hais tias koj xav tias koj tus me nyuam tej zaum yuav muaj teeb meem nrog ib tug siab phem heev. Yog koj xav tias ib qho teeb meem, xyuas kom qhia koj tus menyuam tus xibfwb lossis tus thawj xibfwb.

• Tus me nyuam xav nyob hauv tsev
• Schoolwork mus downhill
• Feem ntau puas ntsoog/ripped khaub ncaws, puas lawm tej yam khoom
• Mob taub hau thiab mob plab
• Nkawd rau ntawm ntug/cries yooj yim
• Unexplained bruises
• Tsis kam qhia koj seb yog dab tsi tsis ncaj ncees lawm
• Pib kev siab phem lwm tus

Nco ntsoov qhia koj tus menyuam tias lawv yuav qhia kev siab phem rau ib tug neeg laus ntseeg, los yog siv cov MySPPS Xa-A-Tip. Yog xav paub ntau ntxiv txog kev siab phem yuav nrhiav tau rau lub SPPS Office of School Support Kev Siab Phem Tiv Thaiv Kev Siab Phem, thiab ntawm stopbullying.gov.

Koj Yuav Ua Li Cas Tiv Thaiv Kev Siab Phem

• Tham txog kev siab phem nrog koj cov me nyuam ua ntej nws tshwm sim thiab txhawb lawv qhia rau koj txog tej kev siab phem pub leej twg.
• Thaum muaj tej lub caij tshwm sim, nres thiab mloog. Nug koj tus menyuam txog seb nws tau sim tso tseg qhov kev siab phem. Tsis yog-txiav txim thiab txhawb.
• Affirm koj tus menyuam. Kev txhawb nqa koj tus me nyuam txoj kev xav thiab pab validate lawv li O.K. thiab to taub. Tsis txhob muab lub tswv yim tias qhov kev siab phem xwm yog lawv txhaum, los yog tias tej yam tsis ncaj ncees lawm nrog lawv uas yuav ua rau qhov teeb meem no. Tus heev nyuj tus cwj pwm yog qhov teeb meem.
• Muaj lus nug txog qhov teeb meem no. Specifically, dab tsi yog koj tus me nyuam ua tiag thiab tso tseg cov kev siab phem? Sau cov ntaub ntawv uas tsis tau txiav txim los yog overreacting.
• Txhawb koj tus menyuam siv tswv yim los nrog cov tshuaj tov. Nws yog empowering rau lawv xav txog txoj kev kom txhob muaj kev siab phem rau lawv tus kheej. Txhawb lawv, tab sis tsis txhawb ywj siab rau koj.
• Txiav txim seb koj tus menyuam puas yuav tsum tau kev nyab xeeb. Tham nrog koj tus menyuam tus xibfwb thiab qhia rau nws paub qhov teeb meem. Ceeb toom rau tub ceev xwm raws li txoj cai yog qhov teeb meem no yuav yus.
• Tsis txhob confront tus heev nyuj rau koj tus kheej. Nws xa lub teeb liab rau tus heev nyuj uas koj tus menyuam tsis kov qhov teeb meem no.
• Tsis txhob confront tus bully niam txiv tsuas yog koj paub lawv zoo heev.  Kev siab phem tej zaum yuav pom raws li ib daim ntawv ntawm tus cwj pwm hauv lub bully lub tsev.
• Be responsive. Yuav tsum ua li cas txaus rau qhov teeb meem no.
• Qhia koj tus menyuam kom muaj qoob loo thiab tias "Koj yuav kov qhov no."
• Tsis txhob txhawb cov me nyuam kawm ntawv mus tua rov qab aggressively, nws nyhav kom cov kev siab phem ntev thiab ua khaus khaus heev. Kawm defensive blocks thiab maneuvers yog ib lub tswv yim zoo.
• Ua kom koj tus menyuam nrhiav kev khiav, tau kev pab los ntawm cov phooj ywg, siv lom zem rau diffuse qhov teeb meem no thiab kawm kom tsis txhob muaj tus heev nyuj.

Koj tus menyuam puas koom nrog gangs?

Tu siab gang koom tes hauv lub teb chaws As Mes Lis Kas yog soaring. Nyob rau hauv peb caug xyoo dhau los ranks ntawm cov neeg gang neeg hla lub teb chaws As Mes Lis Kas yog li 1400%--ntawm 55,000 tus neeg gang neeg hauv 1975 mus tshaj 800,000 hnub no. Tsausmuag suab paj nruag, yeeb yaj duab, yees duab ua si thiab ib tug hluas nyuas uas txhawb cov "gangsta" kev yog glamorizing lub nyuas thiab ua rau nws nyiam rau cov hluas. Cov niam txiv yuav tsum mus tua rov qab. Ntawm no yog tej yam tshwm sim uas koj tus me nyuam yuav muab kev koom tes rau hauv ib gang.

• Tus me nyuam siv gang slang hauv kev sib tham zoo tib yam nyob ib ncig ntawm lub tsev
• Adopts ib nickname tshiab uas yog zoo ib yam nrog gang nyuas
• Secretive txog tej phooj ywg tshiab, tsis kam muaj niam txiv ntsib lawv
• Flashing tes rau tej phooj ywg, los yog txawm tias thaum ib leeg kheej. Xyaum lawv nyob hauv tsev
• Xav hnav khaub ncaws li qhia siv kuj tib yam, tshwj xeeb tshaj yog cov tib paired xim, i.e. xiav thiab dub los yog dub thiab dub thiab dub
• Gang symbols los yog graffiti rau notebooks thiab tej khoom
• Inability/unwillingness nyiaj rau lawv lub sij hawm kom deb ntawm lub tsev
• Kev hloov hauv kev noj qab haus huv vim muaj kev tsim txom los ntawm kev tsim txom
• Cov nyiaj uas unexplained nyiaj ntsuab, electronics los yog raug nyiag lawm merchandise
• Cia li hloov tus cwj pwm coj thiab poob paj rau tsev neeg tej kev ua ub no
• Feem ntau nyob yav tas los curfew thiab tsis Sfering piav rau kev ua

Tus yuam sij los txo unwanted cwj pwm hauv tsev kawm ntawv pib nrog hlub thiab xim nyob hauv tsev. Cov niam txiv ib yam ntawm cov niam txiv yuav ua rau lawv cov me nyuam muaj kev ruaj ntseg ntawm tsev kawm ntawv yog khwb khuav koom tes nrog thiab xav nyob rau hauv lawv cov me nyuam lub neej. Ntawm no yog ib co tswv yim general kom koj cov me nyuam muaj kev ruaj ntseg los ntawm koj tus kheej kev koom tes.

• Paub leej twg tus phooj ywg yog. Nug kom tau raws li tag nrho koj tus me nyuam cov phooj ywg thiab tsis pub lawv muaj zais cia phooj ywg, los yog tej phooj ywg lawv yuav tsis coj mus rau lub tsev.
• Paub tias koj cov me nyuam yog thaum lawv nyob nraum tsis nyob hauv tsev thiab xyuas tej zaum kom paub tseeb tias lawv yog qhov twg lawv hais tias lawv muaj.
• Tsim kom muaj sij hawm rau curfew thiab tsis pub cov me nyuam nyob dhau lawv curfew.
• Nws yog koj lub tsev; Tsis pub cov me nyuam yuav tsum muaj zais cia chaw, ib chav rau khoom tsis muaj kev mus saib, "niam txiv dawb aav" los yog lwm qhov chaw uas koj tsis pub.
• Siv cov miv nyuas thiab ciam teb, thiab zoo ib yam li thiab ncaj ncees rau kev qhuab qhia.
• Txhawb kom muaj kev sib txuas lus thiab nug ntau yam lus—lawv yog qhov zoo tshaj plaws rau ib tug niam txiv muaj.
• Kawm seb yuav tham txog tej teeb meem uas koj cov menyuam tsis tau txiav txim los yog backing lawv mus rau hauv kaum tsev. Nco ntsoov lawv kev ruaj ntseg yog koj tus naj npawb ib txhawj xeeb, tsis koj tau proven txoj cai.
• Heev heev phau ntawv thiab cov hoob kawm muab los ntawm zej zog kev kawm ntawv, churches, cov YMCA thiab lwm qhov chaw pab cov niam txiv deal nrog tawv teeb meem. Xav txog qhov uas koj muaj ib qho teeb meem.

Muab kev koom tes rau hauv koj lub tsev kawm ntawv lub tsev kawm ntawv

Saint Paul Public Schools Peb zoo siab rau peb txoj kev txhim kho tshiab hauv qhov chaw hu ua Pawg Sab Laj Hauv Qhov Chaw. Cov pab pawg no yog cov thawj coj, cov xib fwb, cov neeg ua haujlwm, cov tsev neeg, cov tub ntxhais kawm thiab cov tswv cuab hauv zej zog, txhais cov hom phiaj ntawm tsev kawm ntawv kom meej meej, pab tsim cov cai thiab cov txheej txheem ntawm tsev kawm ntawv thiab daws cov teeb meem. Lawv ntsib tom qab kawm ntawv thaum cov niam txiv thiab cov tswv cuab hauv zej zog muaj sijhawm thiab sib tham thiab ua cov haujlwm ntawm ntau yam teeb meem - suav nrog kev nyab xeeb hauv tsev kawm ntawv. Pawg Sab Laj Hauv Qhov Chaw yog lub rooj sib tham zoo meej rau cov niam txiv uas xav koom nrog kev tsim kom muaj tsev kawm ntawv muaj kev nyab xeeb dua rau lawv cov menyuam. Nug koj tus thawj coj txog cov txheej txheem Pawg Sab Laj Hauv Qhov Chaw hauv koj lub tsev kawm ntawv.

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Saint Paul Public Schools tsis tu ncua muaj cov rooj sib tham hauv zej zog txog ntau yam ntsiab lus. Yog tias koj xav tias kev nyab xeeb yog ib qho teeb meem uas yuav tsum tau tham txog, lossis tau pom tias muaj kev nyab xeeb ntau ntxiv hauv koj tus menyuam lub tsev kawm ntawv, vim li cas ho tsis qhia ib lub ntsiab lus rau kev sib tham? Yog xav qhia ib lub ntsiab lus, hu rau tus neeg sawv cev ntawm lub koog tsev kawm ntawv, Desiree' Payne, ntawm 651-767-8394 lossis xa email rau nws.

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Yog koj lub tsev kawm ntawv tsis muaj peev xwm daws tau ib qho teeb meem kev ruaj ntseg thiab kev ruaj ntseg, thiab koj xav tias koj tus menyuam yog ib qho teeb meem yus, thov hu rau peb qhov chaw ua hauj lwm ntawm 651-767-8370. Yog hais tias koj xav muab cov lus qhia anonymously koj yuav siv tau peb Send-A-Tip. Peb ua hauj lwm zoo nrog tsev kawm ntawv kev ruaj ntseg paab thiab tub ceev xwm hauv zos los daws tej teeb meem uas yus.

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Lub koog tsev kawm ntawv muab ib tus kws lij choj uas ncaj ncees los ua haujlwm nrog cov niam txiv los daws cov teeb meem thiab cov lus tsis txaus siab rau Saint Paul Public Schools Yog tias koj muaj kev txhawj xeeb txog kev ruaj ntseg uas koj xav tias tsis tau txais kev daws teeb meem txaus, hu rau tus Ombudsperson, Desiree' Payne, ntawm 651-767-8394 . Cov lus tuaj yeem tso ua lus Askiv, Hmoob, Somali lossis Mev. Koj tuaj yeem xa email rau Desiree' .

Teev txwv yog ib lwm txoj rau neeg txoj sia thiab txim. Nws yog ib yam ntawm cov cuab yeej haib tshaj plaws uas niam txiv muaj kev qhuab qhia rau lawv cov me nyuam. Paub txog tias muaj ntau txwv rau lawv tus cwj pwm pab cov me nyuam muaj kev ruaj ntseg zoo.

Muaj ob yam tseem ceeb uas yuav tsum paub txog qhov txwv:

1. Teem ib qhov txwv tsis yog tib yam li muab ib lub rooj sab laj ultimatum.
Txwv tsis txhob suab ntshai heev txawm, xws li "Yog hais tias koj tsis ntxuav koj chav tsev, koj yuav tau grounded." Txwv tsis pub muaj kev xaiv rau qhov yuav tshwm sim. "Yog koj ntxuav koj chav tsev, koj yuav tawm mus nrog koj cov phooj ywg. Yog hais tias koj tsis ntxuav koj chav tsev, koj tsis tau tawm nrog koj cov phooj ywg. Nws yog koj qhov kev txiav txim siab."

2. Lub hom phiaj ntawm kev txwv tsis pub qhia rau txim.
Yog hais tias cov me nyuam pib to taub tias lawv tej yam, zoo los yog tsis zoo rau tej yam yuav tshwm sim. Yog muab kev xaiv thiab qhov yuav tshwm, cov niam txiv muab ib tug qauv zoo rau kev txiav txim zoo.

Ntawm no yog ib kauj ruam tsib-kauj ruam mus kom txwv los ntawm lub koom haum Ntsoog Tiv Thaiv Lub koom haum:

1. Qhia koj tus menyuam tus cwj pwm uas koj xav tau.

Hais tias, "Tsis txhob ntawd!" tej zaum yuav tsis txaus. Qhia koj tus menyuam raws nraim li koj xav kom nws los yog nws ua.

2. Piav seb vim li cas tus cwj pwm tsis zoo.

Tsis txhob xav tias koj tus menyuam paub vim li cas nws tus cwj pwm tsis zoo. Nws puas disturbing lwm tus? Disrespectful? Tsis txhob nug dab tsi?

3. Muab tswvyim rau qhov yuav tsim nyog.

Qhia koj tus menyuam seb nws xaiv qhov twg, thiab qhov yuav tshwm sim rau cov kev xaiv uas yuav ua tau. Xyuas kom meej tias qhov yuav tshwm sim yog tsim nyog thiab tej yam uas koj yuav tswj tau.

4. Cia Li Tso Cai Rau Lub Sij Hawm

Nws zoo tshaj plaws rau koj tus me nyuam ob peb moments kom nws txiav txim siab. Nco ntsoov tias yog nws chim siab, tej zaum nws yuav tsis xav meej. Nws yuav siv sij hawm ib feeb los yog ob tug xav txog qhov koj tau hais.

5. Npaj los tswj koj qhov yuav tshwm.

Txwv tsis ua hauj lwm yog hais tias koj tsis li qhia siv kuj tswj qhov yuav tshwm koj twb teev, txawm tias thaum nws tseem inconvenient.

Txwv kom muaj hwjchim los qhia cov me nyuam kom paub coj tus cwj pwm zoo. Lub hom phiaj ntawm qhov kev txwv tsis yog los qhia leej twg yog nais, tiam sis muab cov me nyuam kev taw qhia thiab ib txoj kev ruaj ntseg ntawm kev ruaj ntseg.

• Dua li ntawm shocking tragedies xws li Columbine thiab liab pas dej, thiab pheej tawm xim, tus nqi ntawm homicides hauv tsev kawm ntawv muaj tau xa me nyuam rov txij thaum 1993.
• Txij thaum xyoo 1995 rau xyoo 2003, cov me nyuam kawm ntawv uas qhia tau hais tias yog cov neeg raug dag hais txog kev ua txhaum ntawm tsev kawm ntawv declined ntawm 10 feem pua rau 5 feem pua.
• Qhov feem pua ntawm cov me nyuam kawm ntawv uas qhia lawm ntshai tom tsev kawm ntawv tsis tshee declined ntawm xyoo 1995 rau xyoo 2001, thiab muaj nyob khov kho txij xyoo 2001.
• Cov me nyuam kawm ntawv uas qhia nqa riam phom rau tsev kawm ntawv muaj tsis tshee declined txij thaum 1993.
• Cov me nyuam kawm ntawv yuav tsis raug kev ua txhaum tsausmuag nyob rau hauv tsev kawm ntawv dua lawv tawm hauv tsev kawm ntawv
• Txij xyoo 1992 los rau xyoo 2000, 234 cov me nyuam tau neeg raug dag hais txog homicides nyob hauv tsev kawm ntawv thoob lub teb chaws. Ntawm contrast, 24,406 tau tua neeg raug dag hais nyob rau tej qho chaw uas tsis yog tsev kawm ntawv, qab hau nws muaj tshaj 100 zaug feem ntau yuav tias ib tug me nyuam yuav yog ib tug tsim txom los ntawm tsev kawm ntawv sab nraum lub tsev kawm ntawv tshaj nyob rau hauv nws.
• Kev siab phem yog ib qho teeb meem pheej nyob ib ncig ntawm lub teb chaws, thiab yog ib daim ntawv ntawm kev kub ntxhov uas tau pom ib qho nce rau xyoo tsis ntev los no.

Yog hais tias koj paub txog ib lub caijnyoog twg tsausmuag, thov hu rau 911 tam sim ntawd. Yog hais tias koj xav muab cov ntaub ntawv anonymously thov siv peb Send-A-Tip. 

Tau qhov twg los: U.S. Department of Justice, Bureau of Justice txheeb cais,national txim tsim txom survey (NCVS). Tsev kawm ntawv kev ua txhaum thiab kev nyab xeeb, 2003. National Center for Education txheeb cais. National Center of Vital txheeb cais, 1997. 

• Qhia cov me nyuam siv lub buddy lawv. Feem ntau nws muaj kev ruaj ntseg rau cov me nyuam yaus hauv pawg. Pab pawg neeg ua si ua ntej thiab tom qab tsev kawm ntawv zoo tshaj rau playgrounds thiab nyob ib ncig ntawm lub zej zog.
• Paub qhov twg koj cov me nyuam yog txhua lub sij hawm. Qhia lawv tuaj ncaj tsev tom qab tsev kawm ntawv. Thaum mus xyuas los yog ua si nrog tej phooj ywg, cov me nyuam yuav tsum nco ntsoov adhere to niam txiv pom zoo. Cov me nyuam kawm ntawv uas caij tsheb thauj mus kawm ntawv los yog MTC yuav tsum tau tawm ntawm lawv lub tsheb thauj mus kawm ntawv.
• Role-ua si nrog cov me nyuam qhia kev ruaj ntseg ntsuas nrog strangers. Qhia lawv coj ob peb kauj ruam rov qab thaum approached los ntawm strangers; Ces nyob twj ywm ntawm caj npab mus txog thiab khiav mus rau ib cheeb tsam zoo.
• Nws zoo rau cov me nyuam txog kev ruaj ntseg dua los tsim tshai. Piv txwv li, qhia cov me nyuam yuav tsum ua tsov ua rog ntawm strangers yuav tsum tau muab tib yam tseem ceeb li saib ob txoj kev hla kev hla thiab tsis ua si nrog qhov yuam kev.
• Tsim kom muaj kev sib txuas lus zoo nrog cov me nyuam kom lawv npaj tau daim ntawv qhia txog koj tej yam txawv tshwm sim.
• Xyuas kom koj cov me nyuam memorize niam txiv/cov tswj fwm tag nrho cov npe, chaw nyob, xov tooj, thiab tej chaw ua hauj lwm.
• Saib rau pheej tsom ntawm unfamiliar tsheb nyob rau hauv lub zej zog thiab coj mus rau daim ntawv tso cai phaj phaj.
• Tsis txhob muab koj tus menyuam lub npe rau sab nraum khaub ncaws, backpacks,etc. Qhov xyaum no ua rau nws nyuaj rau strangers hais lus rau cov me nyuam siv lawv cov npe nyob rau hauv ib tug paub manner.
• Yog koj tus me nyuam tau accosted, tus me nyuam yuav tsum tau qhia quaj qw "Kuv tsis yog koj tus me nyuam," los yog "Koj nyob nraum tsis kuv niam thiab txiv". Ntau zaus cov me nyuam tsis nco qab txog quaj qw.
• Nyob hauv tsev, tsim kom muaj tsev txoj cai thiab lo rau lawv. Txoj cai hais txog kev ua si lub sij hawm thiab mus ntsib lwm lub tsev neeg zej zog yuav tsum tau enforced.
• Xyuas kom cov me nyuam kawm tau zoo kom paub txog cov neeg zoo xws li policemen thiab firemen.
• Qhia cov me nyuam kom muaj kev ruaj ntseg zoo los yog vaj tse nyob rau hauv rooj plaub no yuav tsum khiav mus rau lawv. Qhia cov neeg zej zog muaj pab thaum koj tsis nyob hauv tsev. Thaum muaj xwm ceev cov me nyuam yuav tsum tau paub khiav mus rau lub tsev ze tshaj plaws rau kev pab. Qhia cov me nyuam kom tsis txhob alleys thiab tas, tsev, los yog chaw rau tsheb.
• Qhia cov menyuam tias "strangers" yog neeg tsis paub. Criteria for familiarity yuav tsum muaj ib tug neeg uas nws lub npe zoo paub, leej twg nyob ze, los yog lwm cov neeg hauv tsev neeg paub.
• Raws li cov niam txiv, khaws cov tsev kawm ntawv, cov chaw zov me nyuam, thiab cov chaw khiav hauj lwm lij choj. Nyob twj ywm rau ntawm tus me nyuam cov kev pab cuam thiab kev ruaj ntseg khiav cov kev pab cuam.
• Qhia cov me nyuam tias tej qhov chaw hauv lawv lub cev yuav tsis kov los ntawm leej twg, thiab uas tej cwjpwm ntawm ib sab ntawm lwm tus neeg yuav tsum tau qhia tam sim ntawd. Cov niam txiv yuav tsum tau reinforce no tswvyim nquag.
• Cov niam txiv thiab cov me nyuam yuav tsum tsim kom muaj ib lo lus zais hu rau tsev neeg tam sim ntawd.  Cov me nyuam yuav tsum tsis txhob mus nrog ib tug neeg unfamiliar tsis siv cov password.
• Cov niam txiv yuav tsum ceeb toom rau ob lub tsev kawm ntawv thiab tub ceev xwm yog muaj xwm tshwm sim nyob qhov twg los yog txhua lub sij hawm.
• Qhia txog ua ntej thiab tom qab tsev kawm ntawv saib xyuas lub sij hawm, thiab tsis txhob xa cov me nyuam mus kawm ntawv thaum ntxov los yog uas lawv mus kawm ntawv ntev dhau lawm tom qab tsev kawm ntawv.

Peb txoj kev nyab xeeb mus txog rau txhua nam ntawm tus me nyuam kawm ntawv lub neej. Ntawm tus thawj feeb me nyuam kawm ntawv tos rau lub tsheb thauj mus thaum sawv ntxov, rau lub xeem feeb lawv kauj ruam tawm ntawm lub tsheb thauj mus rau yav tsaus ntuj, peb muaj lawv kev ruaj ntseg li peb sab saum toj txhawj xeeb.

Lub tsib yooj yim pillars ntawm peb kev ruaj ntseg yog:

1. Kev Tiv Thaiv
2. Kev kawm thiab drills
3. Tsim lwm txoj rau kev kub ntxhov
4. xyuas 
5. Kev Pab Cuam

1. Kev Tiv Thaiv
Qhov chaw uas yuav tsum tiv thaiv kev ua phem hauv tsev kawm ntawv yog ua ntej nws pib. Saint Paul Public Schools muaj ntau yam kev cob qhia rau cov tub ntxhais kawm kom pab lawv muaj kev nyab xeeb hauv tsev kawm ntawv. Txij li kev kawm txog kev sib txuas lus thiab kev sib hais haum, mus rau kev kawm paub yuav ua li cas thiaj li tswj tau kev npau taws, cov tub ntxhais kawm kawm paub txog kev xav thiab yuav ua li cas tswj lawv tus cwj pwm kom ua tau zoo hauv ib puag ncig tsev kawm ntawv zoo. Ib phau ntawv qhia txog kev cia siab, hu ua Phau Ntawv Qhia Txog Kev Coj Tus Kheej ntawm Tub Ntxhais Kawm Ntawv: Cov Cai thiab Lub Luag Haujlwm tau muab rau txhua tus tub ntxhais kawm thiab tsev neeg, yog li txhua tus neeg paub meej txog cov cai txij li hnub kawm ntawv thawj zaug.

Cov niam txiv pab tau cov niam txiv pab tau lawv li cas

• Saib tus Cwj pwm coj phau ntawv: Txoj cai thiab Teg num kom koj muaj tseeb txog cov miv nyuas.
• Tham nrog koj cov me nyuam thiab tham txog tej yam yuav tshwm sim.
• Cia lawv paub tias nws yog kheej tham nrog ib tug neeg laus trusted, thiab yog hais tias lawv xav qhia ib lub tswv yim anonymously lawv yuav xa-A-Tip.
• Yog koj muaj lus nug, hu rau peb sai li sai tau.

2. Kev Kawm Hauj Lwm
Cov me nyuam kawm ntawv koom rau ntau yam kev kub ntxhov drills los ntawm kev khiav tawm tsheb thauj mus kawm ntawv tsheb thauj mus kawm ntawv, hluav taws kub drills, lockdown thiab intruder drills. Drills muaj dua thoob plaws hauv lub xyoo kawm ntawv nyob rau hauv varied mob thiab xyuas los ntawm cov neeg khiav dej num hauv tsev kawm ntawv kom zoo. Thaum muaj xwm ceev, cov me nyuam kawm ntawv thiab cov neeg ua hauj lwm paub ua ntej lub sij hawm yuav ua li cas, thiab muaj kev ua.

Cov niam txiv pab tau cov niam txiv pab tau lawv li cas

• Tham nrog koj cov me nyuam thaum lawv qhia ib drill thaum lawv lub tsev kawm ntawv - pab tsim lawv cov qoob loo los hais lus zoo, muaj hnub nyoog tsim nyog.
• Tham txog drills thaum sablaj nrog cov neeg ua hauj lwm hauv tsev kom paub tseeb tias lawv paub lawv lub luag hauj lwm nyob rau hauv ib qho kev kub ntxhov.
• Xyuas kom koj cov ntaub ntawv yog mus rau hnub, nyob rau hauv rooj plaub no muaj ib qho xwm txheej ceev thiab cov neeg ua hauj lwm yuav tsum tau hu rau koj.

3. Lwm Txoj Kev Xaiv Rau Kev Ua Phem
Txoj kev zoo tshaj plaws los tiv thaiv cov menyuam kom tsis txhob raug mob yog los tsim lwm txoj hauv kev zoo rau kev ua neej thiab tus cwj pwm uas coj lawv mus deb ntawm kev ua phem. Los ntawm Cov Kauj Ruam Mus Rau Kev Hwm, cov kev pab cuam tiv thaiv pawg neeg muaj ntau yam kev ua ub no tom qab kawm ntawv, cov koom haum thiab cov haujlwm sab nraud; Saint Paul Public Schools ua rau nws yooj yim rau cov menyuam yaus nrhiav tau qee yam zoo thiab pom zoo los koom nrog.

Cov niam txiv pab tau cov niam txiv pab tau lawv li cas

• Tham nrog koj cov me nyuam txog txoj kev los daws cov lus tsis txaus siab nyob rau hauv ib tug txiv neej nonviolent.
• Xyuas kom cov khiav dejnum hauv tsev kawm ntawv paub txog tej teeb meem nyob ze tsev kawm ntawv los yog tom tsev kawm ntawv uas tej zaum yuav nteg qe rau kev kub ntxhov (kev siab phem, truancy, loitering, thiab lwm yam.).

4. Soj ntsuam xyuas
Peb siv ntau mechanisms los tswj intruders, uas tej zaum yuav muaj xws li kawm greeters, los yog lwm cov neeg ua hauj lwm hauv tsev kawm ntawv, ensuring tias tag nrho cov qhua yog screened thiab sau npe. Cov tsev kawm ntawv qib high school muaj hlau detectors muaj. Ruaj ntseg koob yees duab thiab walkie-talkie xov tooj cua xyuas kom meej tias cov neeg khiav dej num hauv tsev thiab cov neeg ua hauj lwm muaj nyob sib continuously thiab muaj tswj lub tsev kawm ntawv. Ib qho kev hem thawj rau kev txheeb xyuas hu ua kev hem thawj tswj kev nyab xeeb los ntawm kev soj ntsuam thiab Kev Pab Txhawb Tswv Yim los xyuas kom meej tias cov counselors, xib fwb thiab cov thawj xibfwb paub txog tej yam tshwm sim uas muaj kev kub ntxhov nyob rau hauv cov me nyuam kawm ntawv, thiab cuam tshuam rau ib lub sij hawm, zoo ib yam li thiab ncaj ncees rau txhua lub caijnyoog twg.

Cov niam txiv pab tau cov niam txiv pab tau lawv li cas

• Paub koj cov me nyuam cov phooj ywg thiab uas lawv siv sij hawm nrog.
• Saib xyuas lawv cov kev ua ub no thiab qhov chaw kom paub tseeb tias lawv yuav tsis siv cov ntaub ntawv uas muaj teeb meem (qhov no muaj xws li internet).

5. Kev Cuam Tshuam
Thaum muaj teeb meem tshwm sim, tsim los pab cov cai thiab cov txheej txheem outline kauj ruam rau cov neeg ua hauj lwm hauv tsev. Ib chav uas yuav tshwm sim los ntawm counseling, mus rau hauv tsev kawm ntawv ncua kev kawm ntawv, raug rho tawm tsev kawm ntawv thiab tub ceev xwm koom tes los ntawm unwanted los yog raug teeb meem. Ib xoom-kam rau ua txoj cai rau gang hais txog kev ua yog enforced ntawm txhua lub tsev kawm ntawv.

Cov niam txiv pab tau cov niam txiv pab tau lawv li cas

• Ua hauj lwm nrog cov neeg ua hauj lwm hauv tsev kawm ntawv nyob saum tus cwj pwm tsis zoo thiab chaw nyob tus cwj pwm coj hauv lawv infancy es thaum koj tus me nyuam twb ncaim tseem ceeb tawm thaum kawg.

• Tham nrog cov me nyuam txog kev kub ntxhov
• Hnub nyoog hais txog cov tshuaj tiv thaiv rau Traumatic kev tshwm sim
• Cov niam txiv cov txheej txheem pab cov hluas tom qab ib Shooting
• Phom kev nruj kev tsiv, kev tu siab, thiab trauma: ib qhov chaw muab kev pab rau cov me nyuam kawm ntawv, xib fwb, thiab cov niam txiv
• Tsev Kawm Ntawv Kev Kub Ntxhov Lub Teb Chaws thiab Regional Resources
• National Child Traumatic stress teg num (NCTSI) | SAMHSA
• Ramsey County me nyuam ntsoog teb: 651-266-7878

Thov dawb, xeev muab phom locks

SPPS tau cog lus rau kev nyab xeeb ntawm peb cov zej zog. Minnesota Lub Tsev Haujlwm Saib Xyuas Kev Nyab Xeeb Hauv Pej Xeem tau ua haujlwm los pab cov neeg nyob nyab xeeb kom ruaj ntseg thiab khaws cov phom uas koj muaj hauv koj lub tsev. Cov tib neeg tuaj yeem thov txog li peb lub phom pub dawb los ntawm lub xeev siv daim ntawv thov no . Kawm paub ntxiv txog vim li cas riam phom ruaj ntseg thiab kev ruaj ntseg cia tseem ceeb.